Sunday, April 30, 2006
You know people say that first impression is the most important and bla bla bla. But come to think of it, I just have to disagree and of course I do have my own reason. I'm not saying that first impression is not important. It's just that it's not as important as what most people make it sound to be. Like, first impression will decide everything and stuffs like that. Well, it's important in the case of job interview but for making friends and other stuffs, I don't think is thaat important. If first impression is important, how about 2nd impression? When you just met this person, maybe you think that "Ew, why does he/she look so proud?" but after you get to know them, you start talking and hanging out with them, will you think back and say "Hm.. He/She is proud after all." And then you'll want to be friends with them. But, will you base your decision on the first impression? Like, "Oh, they're not that bad after all but because my first impression of him/her is that he/she is proud, I shall not hang out with them anymore." Honestly, will you actually think that way? Do you get the point I'm trying to get across? It's not first impression that matters most. If it is, then why is there a phrase that says "Don't judge a book by its cover." Isn't it contradicting the saying "First impression is important"? Isn't life funny? It's so full of contradiction, irony that sometimes you just can't figure out the right from the wrong. Life itself is a contradiction.
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